February 2012

Dear Friends,

Last week I was asked if I would finish off some Church embroidery by the leader of my sewing group. It wasn't for one of the churches in our area, but I was between projects and was glad to be able to help out. What I had not realized until I started working on it, was the sense of fellowship it gave me with those who had worked on it before. As the rhythm of sewing took over my hands, I felt a warmth and companionship with my fellow workers. They were both people I knew. One had moved away, and the other had just become too busy to carry on. But it was as if I was aware of their presence and affection as I pushed the needle in and out of the heavy fabric.

There was once a wise man to whom people came for advice. One day he received a letter. "I would like your help. I wake up each day sad and worried. I can't concentrate. I find it hard to pray. I go to church regularly, but I get no satisfaction. I am so lonely. I begin to wonder why life is worth living. I really need your help" The wise man underlined the first word in every sentence and then just sent it back.

We live in a very individualistic world. Our chores are often done on our own, and with the advent of the internet and home working, people are sometimes isolated. It is very easy to get into a downward spiral of loneliness and depression. Being an individual is important, but it needs to be balanced. We grow into our true selves with the help of the communities we live in, and it is a two way thing. The lives of clubs, workplaces, villages and churches are influenced by you and me, the people who are part of the membership. They in turn have an effect on our lives. Sometimes it is only a little thing that we do, but it adds up.

And, yes, working on the embroidery reminded me to make contact again with both ladies. I sent an email to one and picked up the phone and dialled the other.

God bless